Thursday, October 08, 2009

Are You Tired?

'Do not be weary in well doing for you shall reap if you faint not'
Sola was a very diligent teacher, she got to work before everyone else, wrote her lesson notes, gave her students the most attention and did her job with all the passion in her. She was indeed a model teacher. She did this for years with little or no increase in her salary, she persevered, then in her 7th year, she got tired. Why did she have to work so hard for no recognition and very little pay.

She got slack in writing her lesson notes. The principal of her school noticed something was wrong and asked her about it, she made light of it. Soon, she started getting to school late, she missed classes. The principal told her sadly she had to be queried. She shrugged as the principal talked to her.She got the query.

Unknown to Sola, the principal had recommended her to the committee choosing the most diligent teachers in the city and were going to promote them two levels above where their present ones. There was cash reward, a travels company was going to give her a fully paid vacation and she would get a lot of things she could only dream of all these years.

The day approached fast that the nominated teachers would be observed and the principal tried her best to warn Sola.The day the inspection team came, Sola got to the school around 10 a.m, she had woken up so late. principal had made excuses for her to them and a number of other teachers turned their noses up at her.

The head of the committee spoke to Sola about why they were there, she started to panic in her heart and wondered if she could find the good teacher in her again, the one who only knew how to do her job well.She was asked for her lesson notes, she looked ashamed as they asked. She had not written her lesson notes in two weeks. The inspector sighed. That was a major criteria to qualify for the reward.

Other teachers had been interviewed, only fifty percent of them said she was as diligent, some even said the principal was partial to her because they were related. Most of them hated her for her diligence, some wanted to be like her.The inspectors checked the 'Time book' and found her name for three weeks, she had arrived late to work every single day. They decided to flip back and saw that for so many months back, she had a punctual trend. The lead inspector looked into her eyes and said 'you would have qualified'.He shook his head and left.

The principal took Sola aside and spoke to her. Sola cried and asked why she had not been given a heads up. The older woman patted her on the back and said 'my dear, integrity is who you are when no one is looking'. Sola nodded, lesson learnt but it had cost her so much, a reward she would have gotten for all those years of service. This was definitely a very hard way to learn her lesson.(For some of you who might want a happy ending for Sol..lol, some months down the line, she got recommended for a promotion, just a level ahead but it was better than nothing..lol).
Temi's wife was very cantankerous. He showed her all the love and affection he could, he pleaded with her, they went for counselling and in all her 'madness', Temi remained faithful and gentle. He was praying that God would turn his wife's heart and make her see her wrong ways, but it was taking too long. He needed an answer NOW. The answer wasn't coming, he decided to go out more. He met new people, he drank a bit more.

Then he met this sweet lady. She was everything he could wish for in a woman, they took things slowly at first. Temi's wife was staying home more, she was more quiet when he got home and she wasn't complaining but he was always too tired to notice. A change was coming over the woman he had been praying for for several months but Temi was unaware. He decided to take his relationship with the 'sweet lady' further, he made love to her. He was a godly man and his heart was heavy as he left her that night. His conscience was heavy, cheating was below him as a child of God. Then an anger came over him towards his wife. She led him into this, didn't she?

When he got home, he found a note from his wife in the living room, she praised him for being the most tolerant man on earth, she begged for his forgiveness and said ''you're the best man in the whole world, another man would have gone ahead to have an affair in all the time you stood faithfully by me, praying for me to have a change of heart''. Sola put down the paper as deep sorrow welled over him. He should just have waited a little bit longer, he told himself, just a little bit longer'.

The bible verse above is self explanatory. In recent times, I have had to welcome a number of guests to my house, family and friends, staying and passing by. I had had enough, then some friends told me they were travelling over for the weekend. I was too tired and every attempt to make them back off wasn't working. I decided to fib a little, i wasn't going to be around. But my conscience pricked me and i told them they could come. I complained to a friend who said 'pls try your best to entertain, you never know when an angel is passing by your house, Sarah entertained an angel'. Well said. A few days later, i was chatting with Rita and she said the same thing to me. I told God, point noted, thank you very much.

Am i saying it's comfortable? No way! Will I have guests right now, no please although my sister is coming in this week for a few days to do something important. My choice will be not to entertain anyone for a while. I want my space...I have decided not to entertain any guests (at least live in ones for a while) and if I do allow them to come, I must not complain. If iI don't say no, then it's totally ok by me and who knows, one of them might just be an angel :-)
What is that thing you have done for so long and it seems no reward is coming? You're about to throw in the towel...maybe hold on just a bit, your angel might be around the corner...that's what the good book says!

For a demand that is constantly placed on you, you probably have a special gift in that area, pay attention to it. It might be the key to your blessing. Selah

Have a fantastic weekend!

25 comments:

fantasy queen said...

its all about persevering...

rethots said...

Wow!!! ....a sure word.

Rita said...

I dont know how I managed to read this to the end...oh I forgot, you are a captivating writer...

Gosh! I don't like what happened to Sola and Temi. Sadly they show what happens when we don't want to press on in doing what is right.

I really love "For a demand that is constantly placed on you, you probably have a special gift in that area, pay attention to it. It might be the key to your blessing". So you know you have a gift of hospitality...

NoLimit said...

I needed this!!! To hear the truth in black and white cos gal...I can't lie to you,I've had it up to here!!!
I am tired,weary and every thing you can think of!!!

justdoyin said...

this is very good word...good for me...thanks for sharing it...too bad about Sola n Temi...may God give me the grace to persevere...

leggy said...

nice...i get tired sometimes too.

Olufunke said...

Writefreak, this is a very nice one from you.
I enjoyed reading this,
I can relate to this post, I remember myself saying some weeks ago that 'I am tired of being good' 'I am tired of this, I am tired of that'

Thanks for this reminder, I should hold on a bit longer, I should keep on doing good, ....I know God rewards.
Its just not easy.
How are you doing dearie?

Myne Whitman said...

It can be so difficult to go on but easy to fall away. Nice word for the week. Thanks for sharing.

Dee! said...

I believe there is a lesson for everyone in this post.

I really feel for Sola and Temi. What a pity.

Thank you for this wonderful post.

Stay blessed!

MilesPerHour said...

Thank you for this today.

HYAW said...

i love my space too, but true to your stories, one should never stop doing good cuz you never know when the good might yield a reward. have fun

Controversy said...

Damn why did Solsi have to go foul up? After all that hard work. Wat a shame

Phoenix said...

Beautiful message, thanks .
I promise to take one more step, just one more!!!

aloted said...

This post is surely food for thought..

just occured to me that i dont think i gave u good advice wen u told me of ur weekend visitors cuz u sounded so tired of it all...but am glad u did this post and God shall reward u accordingly.

May God help us all cuz it isnt easy.

TayneMent said...

Only because I could relate I had tears in my eyes but thank you for writing this.

Gee said...

integrity is who you are when no one is looking'.===alot of sense!

lovely post writefreakk!!
wats up witchu???

akaBagucci said...

they say a stitch in time saves nine....

I say a kick in time saves lives... Needed to come back and digest this.... THANKS!

jhazmyn said...

Word...though in respect to having pple ard, i think there are times when to say NO is necessary,

Tk care dr and btw, though i'm telling u this now on chat, i wanna make it public, i aint feelin ur love on my blog o, me and my page miss ya...lol

ShonaVixen said...

As always I loved this post Writefreak!! I needed to hear this today!! Thanks much

goodnaijagirl said...

The two stories are such great lessons...thank you so much, dear WF. My parents are living proof of this, always doing the right thing, even when they seem to almost get punished for it. May God reward them in due time.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

hmmm, thanks so much for sharing this. Perseverance...

Hope your Sunday is going well.

Nefertiti said...

You and Rita have ganged up against me abi? :( Why do I always have a message from you guys. And it's not what my human mind wants to hear either. Even though I know this is something God is subtly telling me, what if I'm just tired and don't want to try? What if people continue to take u for granted despite your kindess? I want to believe it's a hint to step back a little. Wo, I don't know joo, I have a headache. You and Rita should just stop giving me a headache with ur posts joo.... lol.

Geebee said...

Hmmmm touching story, Aunty. It really served as an eye opener to me on the need to persevere because it's when the day is darkest that light actually shines brightest. Good one, ma'am. regards to hubby.

LusciousRon said...

Nice one. I will think about this when I want to rant. Thanks

Olamild said...

this post was made just 4 me